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Once More, With Feeling


I guess that doesn't leave me much more to tell - called the lawyer just a moment ago - seems that shithead still hasn't signed the papers - not a word heard from the bastard. Nothing. He's hiding out, waiting for me to die I suppose. Lawyer claims he's calling him again to try and light a fire under his ass.

I expressed my anger as clearly as I could - said it's going on four fucking years - and it's a simple freaking divorce. No property to speak of - assets had been divided equally. Just a simple pay me and leave me alone deal. Well... that and the fact that there's a "can't collect public assistance and alimony" clause - think it's standard. So if I go to collect PA, then I can't get any money from him, but he's not giving me any money, so I should apply for PA, but if I apply for PA, then I can't get any money from him - SHOOT ME NOW.

Even worse, he's going to have to start a whole new suit if this can't be resolved. I don't want to do this anymore. I really don't think I have enough left in me to go through it again. Times are getting worse for me - and I'm wallowing. Can't motivate myself - gonna end up with nothing, fast. Hate him, hate lawyers, hate life in general. Hate, hate, hate - and it's fucking killing me.

Thanks to anyone who bothers to read about my bullshit and cares. It helps. It's all I've got and I appreciate it. Just tell me one thing, please. Why is it the bastards always seem to win?

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wackinessensues
Apr. 6th, 2004 10:31 am (UTC)
Thinking we should start a postcard campaign against your ex. That or you just need to call the police and say he's selling drugs and have your lawyer go with them force him to open the door and make him sign.

Yeah, do that.
spikes_heart
Apr. 6th, 2004 10:35 am (UTC)
Sounds so good. Really - that and calling in the IRS... 'cause I am sure he's been hiding income. Along with disability. I hate the fuck. Don't know how I ever loved the fucking little troll in the first place.
misanthrope7842
Apr. 6th, 2004 10:34 am (UTC)
Because the bastards, being bastards, cheat and have no remourse for it. Because they're bastards.

::pets and hugs and anything else you need::

spikes_heart
Apr. 6th, 2004 10:36 am (UTC)
That's it - must be it. Fucking bastards. **hugs you back - hard**
dragonflymuse
Apr. 6th, 2004 11:26 am (UTC)
::hugs::

Nothing is ever easy, is it? And it always seems the bastards are the ones that come out ahead. Hang in there ~ Karma will make herself felt and he'll eventually get what's coming to him.

And, FWIW, I like the IRS angle...
spikes_heart
Apr. 6th, 2004 11:37 am (UTC)
I'm edging towards it, I swear - for some reason, I seem to be hanging on to my decency like granny to her flannel. I should let it all go, yes? Become as big a cunt as he is? **sighs** (goes off to look up the IRS)
evilmaniclaugh
Apr. 6th, 2004 11:34 am (UTC)
I have him in my sights and I'm squishing him now. I'm also squishing LJ coz that too is being a bastard.

*hugs and cuddles and an overwhelmingly sickening display of love*
spikes_heart
Apr. 6th, 2004 11:39 am (UTC)
**shhhh** LJ is working for me at the moment. Unlike my digital cable stations. Thank goodness I remembered my A/B switch and the analog stations.

Keep on the squishing - I like that in a friend. **nuzzles into said affectionate display**
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robintcj
Apr. 6th, 2004 01:39 pm (UTC)
*hugs*

I'm sorry, sweetie. Obviously he's evil, and should be drug into the street and shot. Brutally.
tgray
Apr. 6th, 2004 06:19 pm (UTC)
What the hell is he waiting for??? You want me to have him knocked off for you? I know some friends of friends of friends who are into 'big game' hunting. Heh! Hmmm... Was it a bear? A moose? A jackass? An ex? OOps, same difference!

Any way, love you bunches! Chin up sweetie!
nihilistbear
Apr. 6th, 2004 09:10 pm (UTC)
You know what we can do? We can go, find his sory ass, and beat him up until he signs the papers. Yeah?

Anger managment? who, moi?

No but seriously. There has to be a way. Don't you have an intimidating friend that can just stand over him glowering, possibly cradling a baseball bat, so he feels compelled to sign them?

I'll do it!

hellsbells
Apr. 7th, 2004 12:30 am (UTC)
He still hasn't signed?!

I tell ya, the only excuse he should have for not signing yet would be if his fingers had all been tragically crushed in a most unfortunate accident. Like if he was trying to cross the road and tripped, fell onto the road just as a big truck was driving along and it just so happened to drive over his hands.

*nods*

Oh and the bastards always win because there's too many and they stick together.

*hugs*
sailorlum
Apr. 8th, 2004 11:55 am (UTC)
I say sick the IRS on him. If he's doing something illegal then he'll only be getting what he deserves and it won't make you a meanie in the least. If you can't get anything out of him, the least you can do is take him down. Justice an all that.

Wish I could hunt him down like a dog for you.

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